还没有恋爱「一首LetHerGo送给还没恋爱的你」

let her go

人生中要走很多路，有一条路不能回头，就是放弃的路；有一条路不能拒绝，就是成长的路；有一条路不能迷失，就是信念的路；有一条路不能停滞，就是奋斗的路；有一条路不能忘记，就是回家的路；信心满满的走好脚下的每条路，生命中的每一天都很精彩。

英国民谣创作歌手Passenger的《Let her go》就是用它轻快的旋律，让我的耳朵清醒。这首歌用一种近乎愉悦的音调，叙说一个惆怅的故事，一个关于得到与失去的故事，有点像哥哥的《Monica》。我很喜欢里面的兼具排比和起兴的句子，only，only，only…说尽人生的变故和阵痛，这个“her”说的不仅仅是一个姑娘或爱情，我觉得它还代表的很多很多……

相信走过千山万水后的你也会懂得，也会幡然醒悟：上天赐予你一场美梦，是为了支撑你坚定地、骄傲地走完这冗长的一生。

Let Her Go

---by Passenger

Well you only need the light when it's burning low

只有在朦胧黯淡时才念及灯火光亮

Only miss the sun when it starts to snow

只有在冰天雪地时才怀念阳光温暖

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low

只有在身处低谷时才遥想过去峥嵘

Only hate the road when you're missing home

只有在乡愁涌动时才痛恨旅途遥远

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

And you let her go

但真爱已逝

Staring at the bottom of your glass

酒杯已空 醉然凝视

Hoping one day you'll make a dream last

痴妄有一天可以永远沉醉于美梦

But dreams come slow and they go so fast

但你知道 梦来的温柔 而醒的残酷

You see her when you close your eyes

当你闭上双眼 你仿佛看到了她

Maybe one day you'll understand why

也许终有一天你会领悟

Everything you touch surely dies

你是如何亲手毁掉了一段挚爱

But you only need the light when it's burning low

但你只有在朦胧黯淡时才念及灯火光亮

Only miss the sun when it starts to snow

只有在冰天雪地时才怀念阳光温暖

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low

只有在身处低谷时才遥想过去峥嵘

Only hate the road when you're missing home

只有在乡愁涌动时才痛恨旅途遥远

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

Staring at the ceiling in the dark

繁星满天 你痴痴的望着天花板

Same old empty feeling in your heart

又是一个无比寂寞空虚的无眠夜

Cos love comes slow and it goes so fast

爱情来的温柔 去的残酷

Well you see her when you fall asleep

如今你只得在梦里与她相见

But never to touch and never to keep

可这梦脆弱的经不起触碰 经不起长久

'Cause you loved her too much and you dive too deep

你爱她越深 你亦而陷的越深

Well you only need the light when it's burning low

只有在朦胧黯淡时才念及灯火光亮

Only miss the sun when it starts to snow

只有在冰天雪地时才怀念阳光温暖

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low

只有在身处低谷时才遥想过去峥嵘

Only hate the road when you're missing home

只有在乡愁涌动时才痛恨旅途遥远

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

And you let her go

但真爱已逝

And you let her go

但真爱已逝

Well you let her go

但真爱已逝

'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low

只有在朦胧黯淡时才念及灯火光亮

Only miss the sun when it starts to snow

只有在冰天雪地时才怀念阳光温暖

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low

只有在身处低谷时才遥想过去峥嵘

Only hate the road when you're missing home

只有在乡愁涌动时才痛恨旅途遥远

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low

只有在朦胧黯淡时才念及灯火光亮

Only miss the sun when it starts to snow

只有在冰天雪地时才怀念阳光温暖

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low

只有在身处低谷时才遥想过去峥嵘

Only hate the road when you're missing home

只有在乡愁涌动时才痛恨旅途遥远

Only know you love her when you let her go

只有在已然放手后才始知那是真爱

And you let her go

但真爱已逝

let her go